8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go

This book is amazing. I’m more of an audio book but I wanted to get this book as a hardcover. It’s more motivating to read and has such amazing information.

Reading this book, you might not expect it, but you'll fall in love with your LIFE again, as well as with your partner, your family, and and your opportunity to create more real and genuine relationships in this chaotic and distracted world. It's weird to say this, but I love the structure, intention and what feels like emotional energy of this book. Starting with "Solitude" and moving through Compatibility, Healing, and Connection reminds us that love evolves and changes throughout our lives, to this day. I love the 8 Rules: 1. Let Yourself Be Alone 2. Don't Ignore Your Karma 3. Define Love Before You Think It, Feel It, or Say It 4. Your Partner is Your Guru 5. Purpose Comes First 6. Win or Lose Together 7. You Don't Break in a Breakup 8. Love Again and Again The section on Healing is especially powerful. Each rule is actually profound when you read them, but Jay gives so many great examples you know how to be and what to DO and SAY in your real relationships after reading. Like Jay's last book, this is practical but inspiring, elevated but relatable, hopeful but honest. I know Jay personally as a friend and he put so much heart and soul into this book, you really FEEL it. His humility, brilliance, and mindful approach to living shows up here just as you'd want in such a deeply personal topic. For those ready to reignite their relationships, this is for you. Brendon Burchard, author The Motivation Manifesto

I’ve read tons of marriage books but this one will blow you away! I found Jay Shetty on his On Purpose Podcast. I felt he was so knowledgeable and interesting to me that I bought Think Like a Monk. I was so inspired by that book that I still listen to a chapter a week on audio. I’ve listened for the past year. It’s been a slow, impactful healing that I needed to believe in myself. I also joined as a Genius member and wore out the 30 days free. I got overwhelmed with my finances so I canceled my membership. The more I started learning about finances is that my mindset was the number one key. They graciously took me back and the Genius team helped me with my app and new phone. It’s by far been my best investment! Today I have more in the bank than I ever have. I have sacrificed, work hard, and kept seeking knowledge. I used Jay, Mel R, Lewis Howes, Ed Mylett, Tom and Lisa Bilyeau. Guess what! They are friends and build each other up! Go follow all of them on social media!! Go buy ALL their books! These people don’t let excuses and fears control their life. I’m getting there one day at a time. I am grateful for the great progress I have made so far. ❤️❤️ 5 STAR Review. My 15 year wedding anniversary is in May 2023. I’m happy to have this book as a tool. Also, Rule #1 is a game changer. Jay provides it free on his podcast. The giving of love from this group of people will change the world!!!!!

Like a lot of others, I read Think Like a Monk before this one and I was eager to dive into another Jay Shetty book after loving the first. I would almost consider this one to be a “sequel” to Think Like a Monk since I felt like a lot of the core principles from it were just being applied to relationships in this book. It was a little bit repetitive and a little too many exercises for my liking but otherwise still a good read but I found myself struggling to stay engaged. Also - what if I’m not a very social person and I’m drained from being around people? Kinda makes me feel like I’m doomed if the only way to real love is being part of a social community.

"8 Rules of Love" by Jay Shetty is an exceptional book that offers profound insights into the art of building and maintaining meaningful relationships. Shetty's wisdom and practical advice are both inspiring and actionable, making this book a valuable resource for anyone looking to deepen their connections with others. The book is beautifully written, blending personal anecdotes with timeless principles that resonate deeply. Shetty's approach is compassionate and relatable, providing readers with the tools to navigate the complexities of love with grace and understanding. "8 Rules of Love" is a must-read for anyone seeking to enhance their relationships and cultivate a more loving and fulfilling life. Jay Shetty's guidance is both enlightening and empowering, making this book a standout in the realm of personal development.

As a reader who values personal growth and meaningful connections, I found **"8 Rules of Love"** to be an insightful and practical guide. Jay Shetty, drawing from ancient wisdom and modern science, offers actionable steps to navigate the complex landscape of romance. 1. **Holistic Approach**: Shetty emphasizes that love isn't just an emotion; it's a daily practice. He encourages readers to explore their own identities, desires, and vulnerabilities. The book includes questionnaires and self-reflection exercises, making it an interactive journey. 2. **Avoiding False Promises**: Shetty debunks common myths about love and relationships. He reminds us that loneliness can lead us astray, pushing us into the wrong relationships or causing us to settle for less than we deserve. 3. **The Relationship Cycle**: From first dates to moving in together, breaking up, and starting over, Shetty covers every stage of romance. His eight rules provide a roadmap for nurturing love, both for ourselves and our partners. 4. **Practical Wisdom**: The author's Vedic-inspired insights are grounded in real-world scenarios. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or healing from heartbreak, you'll find valuable takeaways. In summary, **"8 Rules of Love"** is more than a book—it's a transformative experience. Shetty's blend of spirituality, psychology, and practical advice offers readers a chance to love authentically and build lasting connections. Highly recommended!

A great book and definitely recommend!

Jay Shetty clearly and concisely breaks down what love is. Likely the most challenging emotion to define for us. Most importantly, he allows the reader or listener to discover what their definition of love means to them and challenges them to see what they carried from their childhood into their marriage. It's part information, part exploration, and part coaching manual. Love is the foundation of what we all seek. He relates both ancient wisdom and scientific research and brings the reader opportunity for personal growth and insights. Whether single, married, partnered, or widowed, this book is for every person seeking deeper connections and more fulfilling relationships. I recommend listening as there is some excellent mindful meditation he walks you through. However, I purchased both, and I am glad I did. I am now working through some steps to heal myself in my relationship with love, myself, and all my relationships. Jay is on a mission to “Make wisdom go viral.” He believes wisdom is the fountain of positive strength, giving the courage to fight the darkness of selfish greed and ignorance and the power to choose love, compassion, and empathy. I am glad to be a part of that mission, and you can be too, start here. You'll be happy you did.